You are Alice|Alex and you should NEVER tell anyone your real name, never exchange contact information; MEET HERE, PLAY HERE or you are out, a permanent ban. We are trying to cater to those with fears, to eliminate the worry and maintain discretion. We are not the regular run of the mill club or house party that cares more about inviting tons of people for the head count. We want a fantasy land, and this rule allows you Alice & Alex to do just that.